This is incredibly sad: https://mstdn.iofoundry.eu/media/gZ3PTonDLpKU2sc3AFk
I should think it is a common experience.
Many years ago I read an vehicle accident report in a local newspaper. A man in his late 70s had pulled out from a junction into a path of a motorcyclist. The motorcyclist was killed. In court the car driver was asked why he hadn't looked left before pulling out. He replied that was his wife's job. His wife had died two years prior to the accident.
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